I'm Back!

Obviously, this was my premarital blog, where I posted my heart out up through shortly after I married a fellow blogger (not literally "fellow" or it wouldn't have been legal anywhere just yet) what seemed so happily, and mostly continued to be so, despite rumblings rooted in the very earliest days and our very natures and circumstances. We blogged jointly, and on some level it was about the point when we switched to our second marital blog that for me things were going south on the course that led us here.

So we're getting divorced. This is not the post I wish to write explaining concisely (relatively speaking) and coherently my perspective on what happened. Which was not the boyfriend (hers, not mine; I would be mainly open to a girlfriend... applicants welcome any time, but things are complicated as yet), who really came later. However frequently (hey, can't pass up the obligatory dirty minded wit).

This is just to announce the status of pending divorce of the famed blogger marriage, and my emphasis to come on more traditional solo blogging on not the joint/family blog, which may even happen here. I was intending to use solojay.com and port this old content to it, probably migrate the domain to this hosting. I may yet. However, we sold out and started doing link ads. She signed up and started it rolling. I took over running it and made it really pay. It's primarily on blogs owned by me, but it's all in her name. The solojay.com blog never attracted ads, so I deleted it from the account, but I am unable to switch it to an account of my own because deleted doesn't mean deleted. If I could get even a few bucks a month out of the deal and have it flow to me, I'd like that. So I may abandon that domain and either use a new one the same way, or for now use this old URL.

However, it needs to be moved from pMachine to WordPress. So look for that At Some Point. And the possibility that elhide.com/solo will end up mapped to some domain or another. Meanwhile, maybe there'll be other posts here, on pMachine. Less constrained than on the family blog, but maybe more constrained than I'd be if I had an anonymous venue. A bit more like my historical blogging.

I'll try to do the post about what happened. It's a lot of stupid on my part, but I was never afraid to admit to stupid, or inability to deal with certain things, in the past.